[blakesmummy]

I am 19 years old, in a stable relationship, have a full time job and have a 4 month old son. My brothers kids have been in care for over a year, I want to foster them as the chances of them being returned to their parents are looking slim. I am aware that the usual age for fostering is 21 but I'm wondering if this may be different as I am the children's auntie. I live in the uk.

[Jake2008]

In the UK, is an adult considered at age 18, or 21. That will likely have much to do with what you are considering. If you are still considered a 'child', it isn't likely you will have much success.

But if you are considered an adult, and this is something you wish to pursue, then check out all the legalities and stipulations involved in taking this on. Best advice there, is to see a lawyer for a consultation on all the ins and outs.

In the meanwhile, is it possible for you to have regular visitation with these children? Are you having contact now? If guardianship is not possible at this time, maybe something could be established through the system that the children are in, so that you can have regular contact with them. I can't see how that would be seen as a negative, and in the long run, it would be good for them I would think.

That too might be something a lawyer could advise you on. May be worth the cost of a visit to see what you can, and cannot do.

Kudos to you though, you sound like a decent person who is doing the right thing, with a big heart, on behalf of these kids.