[sweet_as_cherry]

Hy... well I was dating this boy for 1yr and 6 months. We were the best of friends always on the phone talking about our day and told each other everything. I am 18 and he will be 18 in 1 month. Well we broke up 5 months ago because people includidng my family did not want us together. We decided to be best friends and to continue as just like before but just as friends. Things were good but I was always jealous of him talking to other girls because I still loved him. Well we got to a big fight because I still want to be with him but he says that we can't never be together cause even though he loves me people will never let us be happy and are always going to be spreading rumors. Since them we completely stopped talking, and if we see each other we act like stragers. I tried contacting him but he told me he was busy and doesn't pick up my calls. His friends told me he doesn't want to be friends with me cause people talk too much and are always telling him to leave me alone. Either way it hurts me so much to see the way he treats me like if I was nobodyto him.. and he doesn't even say hy. Its been almost 1 month that we haven't talked and when we see each other we try not to even look at one another.. and act like nothing happened. I still love him but the way his acting hurts me because deep inside I know he loves me too... will he ever try to contact me... how long should I wait... wat can I do?? please I need your help :( :confused:

[ChihuahuaMomma]

If he can allow people to break the two of you up, then he obviously does not love you the way that you love him. I would suggest moving on, and not letting him be such a burden on you. Other people should have no say in your relationship. But you are still young. You have much to learn about relationships. So, please, learn from this... and move on.

[oneguyinohio]

I'd take a guess that it's over. Sounds to me like he doesn't think it is worth the trouble or headaches to continue. Does not seem like the two of your lives are very compatible for what ever reasons at this point.

[youcantstop48]

I would agree with mommas answer, if he truly loved you it wouldn't matter who said what about the 2 of you, you are very young and have a lot to live, so move on and see what happens, you will be very surprised on what comes across your path!!

[alannaxxbby]

My family didn't want me and my ex to be together at all. We still was together and stuck through it and was stronger in the end. And as much as it hurts its true if he would let little things end your relationship he doesn't love you like you love him. Move on. And let him do the same. I was completely crushed when me and my ex broke up because he was all I knew. We were together for so long and he was my first love. When you move on and find the right guy, you'll be happier than ever! Keep your head up ;)

[sweet_as_cherry]

I know you guys are probably right.. but it doesn't seem fair that after almont 2 years of surporting him and being there for him for all his problems he just decideds he doesn't want to talk to me... most of his friends think that I am one of the prettiest girls in town, I'm smart, I always cooked for him and brough him dinner to his job... is just not fair.. I want to make him regret what he did.. do you guys have any suggestions?

[ChihuahuaMomma]

Move on. He'll realize what he lost, and when he comes crying back to you act like it doesn't bother you. Stand your ground. You are too good for him. You deserve better. Remember that. Find someone that is not embarrassed to be with you.

[alannaxxbby]

Move on. When he sees you with another guy and how happy you are. He will realize he screwed up. But don't use the other guy. Find someone who will truly make you happy. It might be hard to be normal with him at first because you'll look at all the things he does diff. But you'll make it :] Good luck!

[youcantstop48]

Yes leave him alone, it may sound harse but sweetheart he doesn't care about you enough now so the only thing your going to do is humiliate yourself, don't waste your time on something that isn't there, you find someone that will give you just as much in return!!

[sweet_as_cherry]

Yeah I think you guys are right.. I am going to move on and see what happens. But I find it so hard because I hate dating around I just wish I could find the right guy. But I just hope my ex will realize his mistake. I won't contact him anymore... it's up to him if he ever want to talk again!! I just hope for the best..

[youcantstop48]

U will get the best, live your life and you will see a big difference in yourself and realize all of this hurt wasn't really worth it!!