Should I leave my husband?
I have been married for 9 years and been with my husband for 10. I have two children and he has two other children from a previous marriage. I really need your help to clear my mind. I am having huge problems with my husband and the stepson who lives with us. First of all this child was sprung on me without any warning in the guise of him coming over for a vacation. Well the vacation has turned into6 years of hell for me. My husband and his son treat me as an outsider and make major decisions without my inpur. e.g. purchasing a new car. He is constantly putting me down and making jokes about hot fat I am and calling me nag when I call him out on it. He allows his son to disrespect me and never does anything about it. He has even turned around and blamed me for arguments started by his son. I am an immigrant in this country and I really do not know what to do or where to go fro help if I were to leave him. I have been unable to work due to one of my sons being disabled. Should I stay with this man or should I find a way out? If I do how do I go about it? Can anybody with a similar experience tell me how they managed to leave a situaton like this. I cannot afford to go back to my own country as I have absolutely no money and my relatives are to poor to help. Please give me some suggestions and help me out of this trap.