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    joy_reyno Posts: 6, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 6, 2009, 02:29 AM
    After my mother passed away
    As the years go by, the more I missed my mother. How can I recover my loneliness because she died a week before her departure to visit me?
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    Oct 6, 2009, 02:48 AM

    You can start but doing things she would've wanted you to do like... be happy :) All mothers want their children to be happy.

    Is there something she wanted to do but she never did? Like horseback riding? Do whatever is it that she couldn't and do it for her. You'll feel a lot better afterwards.

    You can also grow a plant in her honor, nurture it and keep it. Watch it grow.

    You can also do more things in your life:
    -take a cooking class
    -take belly dancing class
    -take an art class
    -start going to the gym
    -start jogging
    -start sewing, knitting, crotchet...
    -volunteer at a nursing home, animal shelter...

    Make a life. Live a life. The death of your mother should not be the death of you. I am positively sure she would want you to live your life.

    Sarah
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    Oct 6, 2009, 03:16 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by joy_reyno View Post
    As the years go by, the more I missed my mother. How can I recover my loneliness because she died a week before her departure to visit me?
    Thank you so much for your encouragement and things to be done that would lift me up to be happy as my mother wants me to be always.

    God bless you.
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    Oct 6, 2009, 07:47 AM
    I don't know how old you are... but my father wanted one of his children to graduate from college. I did that one year after he passed and I was 43. I am the only college graduate in my family. I know he is at work with me every time I clock in to work.
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