Disruptive behavior of an 8 year old
My son is 8 years old and at least twice a day he becomes very mean and verbally abusive. He says he is going to kill himself and other members of the family, usually me. I have tried being very nice and telling him that is unacceptable. I have taken away some of his favorite things, computer games, etc. And I have actually spanked him. Although this has only happened twice. He is a perfect angel at school.
This morning he grabbed a pair of scissors and said he was going to kill me in my sleep tonight.
My question is what should be my next step. Can't do this much longer.