Dear 10shane01 - Your thoughts create your feelings. If you tell yourself that you are worthless - that is how you will feel. Perhaps you have had experiences that have hurt you or made you feel this way. You may have internalized these negative experiences and accepted them as your own.
I am going to tell you a truth - that no matter what has happened to you, your spirit - you -are always whole and complete. There is a part of you that has never been hurt, never been damaged - your very being is always whole, complete and perfect. This is the you that accepts happiness and wants a better life. Anytime something hurts you, return to this truth about yourself.
People have opinions and sometimes those opinions are hurtful. I had a hard time as a kid and it took me a long time to figure out how life works. What I think you should learn is a better way to think about yourself. Create a safe place within yourself. Say, "I am worthy and well. I accept myself. I am truth, happiness and success. Wherever I go I find friends and acceptance. I let go of all sadness and pain. I am safe. Success and goodness are mine. I am divinely guided in all that I do."
Know that the universe that we live in holds nothing against us, ever. You have acceptance. There is only one life - one system of planets, one sun, one earth - this life is perfect and there is no other life. Life is good. People have wrong, negative beliefs that hurt us. Make a choice to accept good things about yourself. So long as you make choices that are good, you will succeed. Read any books that keep your spirits up. Check out any books by Ernest Holmes. The daily guide of affirmations would be a good book for you to read. Every day you have a different affirmation.
Learn about yourself, your feelings and what you think. The more you learn about yourself, the more you will learn how to take better care of yourself. Take care, dear one.
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