[Danielle89]

I've known my fiancé for a little over four years dated him for about a year and four months before he popped the question almost six months ago... He has never cheated on me but he has sent inappropriate text messages yo other girls and I confronted him about it he said he doesn't know why he did it. I've done everything from lingerie, sexy outfits, to touching him. But he just moves my hand and says stop. When we first started dating he wanted to have sex that first night I didn't but when we did we would every time we saw each other which was twice a week we moved in with each other about four months ago and we barely do it every three weeks. I don't understand why... Does he find me less attractive? Am I no longer the one for him?

[odinn7]

Have you tried talking to him?

You might want to re-think this whole "fiance" thing if you're having problems already.

[Danielle89]

I've asked him why he says he tired or not in the mood... I never thought ar this age sex would be a problem. Im 22 ill be 23 in 16 days & my fiancé is 26

[odinn7]

The tired excuse is used way too often. I guess sometimes it may be true but if you hear it too much and there doesn't seem to be much of a reason for it, there is probably something else going on.

You should sit him down for a serious talk to try to get to the bottom of this.